Wednesday, 30 July 2025

Looking Back at July – Destiny Helpers

 

Do you believe in destiny helpers? A destiny helper can be anyone absolutely anyone, they find you, you don’t find them and most importantly they don’t require anything from you in return to help fulfil your destiny.

 

True story as told to me. A job seeker is looking for work in a certain vicinity, they get turned away in two places. The job seeker gets to the third place and finds it locked up with no one at the entrance to assist. The job seeker starts walking away and at that exact moment a groundskeeper turns up and asks if he can be of help. The job seeker explains their mission, the groundskeeper says this place is not hiring to his knowledge and then directs the job seeker to a different place in the same vicinity that is currently hiring and even gives a contact name. The groundskeeper knows this because he also keeps the grounds at this other place and is familiar with the higher ups over there. The job seeker goes there asks for this contact, the contact takes a liking to them asks them to come back for a formal interview and they get hired on the spot. The groundskeeper in this story is the destiny helper. One may argue that this was a case of right place right time, but remember the groundskeeper was under no obligation to ask if the job seeker needed help he could have just gone about his business, he was under no obligation to give out the information which led to the job seeker getting hired but he did, nevertheless. Remember when I said they don’t require anything from you in return? This groundskeeper did not ask for anything he just gave out what he thought was information that would be helpful to this person.

 

Destiny helpers find you; you do not go looking for them, they find you. That subscriber that left a comment on your video, a comment that led to you being discovered by a brand manager leading to a huge brand deal? That is a destiny helper. You have a struggling small business someone strikes up a conversation with you at the store while waiting in line, that conversation ends up with them connecting you to someone they know who needs your services, and this person’s order boosts your sales significantly. That is a destiny helper.

 

Destiny helpers can come in the unlikeliest of formats even in situations we consider hurtful or negative at the time, that situation that you later refer to as a blessing in disguise. Had that person not kicked you out of their house, you may never have experienced the ripple effect that ensured you became a homeowner. Terrible as that situation may have been that person helped fulfil your destiny to be a homeowner. That negative comment that went viral and in turn got you recognised, and positively influenced your content creation journey from the support that came out of it, yes that too. We don’t always have to experience terrible situations to fulfil our destiny but sometimes depending on the type of person one is, that terrible situation may be the catalyst that moves them forward. Some people need a push to get them to the next level this push may sometimes come from negative situations.

 

So when you pray today don’t forget to pray for your destiny helpers, pray for them to locate you and may you also be a helper in someone else’s destiny. My July was a destiny filled month I hope yours was too here’s to a wonderful month of August.

 

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