The other day on twitter someone asked
for recommendations for black stylists in the Boston, (USA) area. She got a ton
of comments with recommendations and people sharing their struggle trying to
find stylists in non black majority areas. One of those comments screenshot
below caught my attention because it made no sense whatsoever, well at least to
me it didn’t.
I am actually grateful to this comment for inspiring this post:) |
I
was like sis what Europe are you talking about, is it the same Europe I know or
a different Europe? Or was this the usual American generalisation of Europe you
know “I am going to Europe” “I live in Europe” etc instead of being country
specific. I had to jump in and comment because that did not make sense to me at
all. You can find a black stylist professional or otherwise in the smallest of towns
at least in Western Europe if you look hard enough. I mean there are black
stylists in Seoul, South Korea! South Korea, a historically homogenous country!
Not to talk of Europe with its millions of decades long black residents. There
are entire streets in London and Paris (in my experience) where you will find a
black salon and a black beauty supply store every two steps you take. Some of
these streets actually have people out on the pavement soliciting for clients
for their salons. I mean we are in 2021 not 1921, it doesn’t make sense to fly
all the way across the Atlantic to get your hair done, that is one pricey hair
appointment. I mean even if one lives in an Eastern European country, it is
cheaper to fly or take the train whichever gets you there quicker, to London,
Paris, Brussels and even Amsterdam I believe, where you can get a same day
service at a walk in salon than flying back to the US. And you get to visit another country in Europe
in the process, so that’s a win win two birds one stone kind of situation. Some
Eastern European countries like Ukraine and Russia have African students studying
there, some who do hair on the side for extra income. FYI Africans have been
studying in Eastern Europe for decades (my half Nigerian half Slovakian bestie’s
parents met in Prague as students in the late 60s/early70s) so I am sure
there will be a descendant, maybe two or a new arrival who can do hair in some
parts of Eastern Europe, especially the capital cities.
Even in Western European small towns
and villages with seemingly hardly any black populations, there’s probably
someone who can do black hair or knows someone who can do black hair, it may be
an informal home service or an instagram stylist but it is quite possible to
find someone there or the next town over if you are proactive enough in your
search. I have a friend who moved to a small
town in Germany over 20 years ago, back then black girls in small towns would sometimes
have to travel to major multi-ethnic cities to braid their hair and usually
through word of mouth recommendations. These days it is much easier to find
someone who lives in the same small 99% Caucasian populated town as her, who does
home service hair braiding appointments. If there is one thing black people
have anywhere in the world, it is a strong informal network of service
providers to suit our black needs be it hair, food etc. Use the resources at
your disposal, we have social media these days unlike back in the day, ask for
recommendations online, use the search engines available to your advantage,
Europe is heaving with black people who can do hair. That brother you saw at
the mall in Iceland, where you were the only two black people in the entire 100
floor mall, could have a sister, girlfriend, cousin, wife, mother, auntie, colleague,
or friend who does hair or knows someone who can do hair or even know how to do
hair himself. That friendly Swedish shopkeeper in small town Sweden, who owns
the corner store down the road where you buy your groceries, could have one
other regular black customer he could ask on your behalf, could know of another
small town 30 minutes away, with a much larger black population that you the
new comer had no idea existed and surprise surprise could even have a black
spouse or grandchildren that he could ask on your behalf. You would be
surprised the kinds of networks people have. It could be something as random as
the owner of the nail shop where you get your nails done, having a son, that works
in a factory with a guy from Ghana, and BOOM one thing leads to another and you’ve
got your black hair stylist problem in some random Polish city solved! Be
proactive in your search.
One of the recurring comments that
really hit home for me on that thread was “go
where our people are”. I whole heartedly agree. Find our people and you
will find a black hair stylist anywhere in the world.
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